Single mom works hard for her son – His friend’s parents offer to adopt him

How my son reacted to them wanting to adopt him is in the link in the comments.

A single mother of one found herself in a delicate situation after failing to recognize the red flags that placed her and her son’s safety in danger.

She shared her story on Reddit’s “True Off My Chest” forum and explained that she and her son were living together in a one-bedroom apartment and never had much, but got used to the moderate life she could afford for them. The boy’s father was never in the picture and never saw his son nor he ever contributed to his upbringing financially.

The woman worked and always did her best to provide for her son the best life possible, but their reality was that they always struggled to make ends meet.

He son, Owen, studied at public school that didn’t offer much possibilities. When he was about to attend second grade, his mom decided to switch schools and Owen attended another public school close to his mom’s workplace. This made things a bit easier for the woman who could now navigate between her son’s school and her job.

At his new school, Owen made friends with a boy named Charlie. The two bonded and started spending more and more time together.

According to Charlie’s parents, Nate and Paige, not only they didn’t mind having Owen around, but they were happy he was spending time at their place hanging out with their son.

With the summer break of 2022 just around the corner, the woman found herself in a challenging situation. She considered a free or a low-cost camp for Owen, but Paige, who was a stay-at-home mom, offered to take care of Owen for the week.

Although this sounded generous, the woman wasn’t all comfortable with leaving her son under other people’s care for that long, but since Owen and Charlie became best of friends, she accepted the offer and thanked Paige for her hospitality.

During the break, Owen enjoyed a week filled with activities. Not only that, but he was showered with all sorts of gifts.
When the summer came, Charlie’s parents offered to take Owen on vacation with them. Owen’s mom felt that wasn’t right, but she didn’t want to forbid her son from having a blast together with his best friend so she eventually agreed. She even expressed her gratitude to Nate and Paige, continually feeling overwhelmed by their generosity.

However, as time passed by, Owen’s mom was intrigued by Paige’s infatuation with Owen. Paige confided that they had originally hoped for Charlie to have siblings, but circumstances had prevented it and Owen felt like a brother to Charlie.

This revelation did raise concerns, but the woman still believed the family’s relationship with her son was just an innocent one.

When Christmas 2022 came around, Paige and Nate insisted Owen to spend the holiday with them. They bough plenty of gifts for him and said they were looking forward for being together for the holiday.

This time, it felt like their generosity exceeded the boundaries, and the woman started having suspicions regarding their intentions.

Well, she turned out to be right.
When she confronted them, and asked what was really going on, Paige and Nate said they wanted to take Owen permanently. They even offered the woman possible solutions of how they could become his legal guardians.

“I thought they were joking and said, ‘Like what, you’d be his guardians or something?’” quipped the single mom. “They got quiet and the reality rushed over me.”

The woman was in a total shock. She said she would never, not in her wildest dreams, consider giving up her son. That’s when they started persuading her that she should consider it for Owen’s sake.

At that moment, the woman took her son by his hand and left Charlie’s parents home. She then blocked their numbers and decided to cut all contact with them, but she was still concerned for Owen’s safety.

Things were hard because Owen and Charlie became inseparable and explaining to her son why he couldn’t hang out with Charlie any longer or ever visit his place again felt as a burden.

She truly didn’t know what her next step should be. Returning to his old school wasn’t an option for Owen at that point.
The woman even considered moving places, but with her finances, that wasn’t a possibility.

Following the Reddit community advice, the woman contacted her son’s school and explained Nate and Paige were no longer allowed to pick up Owen due to safety concerns.

Owen and Charlie still interacted at school, but that was it. She explained to Owen that they couldn’t be having sleepovers any longer or hang out outside of the school.

One day, upon finishing school, Owen took the bus to a local recreation center for aftercare. Both the school and the center were alerted about Paige and Nate, and that particular day, the woman received a phone call about Paige wanting to take Owen from the center. The front desk, aware of the situation, refused to release him. Police were called, and Paige was escorted out of the building.

Paige wasn’t arrested but a police report was filed which the woman intended to use in court to obtain an order of protection.

The day after the incident, the woman finally gathered the courage to tell the truth to Owen and why he couldn’t be friends with Charlie any longer, except their meetings within the school.

When she told him that Charlie’s parents wanted to take him from her and become his legal guardians, Owen told his mom he would never leave her, not for any present in the world. He assured her that he would always pick her, because she was his mom who worked hard to give him a decent life.

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